Well. Hello there. Free your mind and your time for this non-ordinary approach toward dating.
And remember: You and I have no obligations here. “If you have a problem with me, call me. If you don’t have my number, then that means you don’t know me well enough to have a problem.”
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Life is short. Make sure you spend as much time arguing with a complete stranger (ME) on the internet about things you don’t agree with and that I don’t care about.
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The summary of this CV is: Do you expect this love to come from nowhere like in a fairy tale, or do you plan to deserve it in some way?
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Spend 1 minute for these questions to see if we could match.
DEAL BREAKERS:
The ”perfect” woman. Perfect people do not exist.
Not single, have children, Wear heavy makeup, No self-respect, hate your job, Choker Daddy issues, No personality, Unhealthy, Not actively becoming better, Smokers, really fat, Vegans, Selfish, Narcissistic, femi-nazis, grammar-nazis, PCs, Use Pronouns, religious, mind gamers, drama queens, pretentious, princesses, queens, Have the body count of a dog, whores, prostitutes, materialists, gold diggers, sugar babes, OnlyFans.
The type of women looking for a man to fix their broken live and all they offer is an overused pussy. Your happiness Is not my responsibility, you and I should be happy as an individual, then we can come together to share our happiness. Love is a long process, if you are looking for a quick thrill and compliments, you bark at the wrong tree. The most I like in a girl is her personality, but don’t call me if you have several. I really can’t stress enough that – if you’re a broken woman, the unbroken men will never want you.
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If having an animal is more important than having a man, you are not ready for a relationship.
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Or you are from the women who say stupid shit like “just ask me” ….. NO. Not going to play games with you. If you are too lazy to fill up your profile, you obviously don’t look seriously.
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The thing i really hate is the overthought wrongly understood false accusations. Taking something i said, imagine something ludicrous and passing that crazy shit as my words. Example: I said – i don’t have a pet. Some women translated this to: I hate animals and I torture daily the one locked up in my basement. What i meant is: I don’t have a pet. And i don’t have a pet, because for most of them this is torture. Most of the animals are social and they need that interactions. Getting an animal and locking it up is NOT good or moral, it’s also illegal in some countries. Don’t brag me with your prisoners. And don’t tell me you “love” animals without actually caring for them. Having a pet is a recognition you are lonely and instead of taking care of your mental health, you decide to do the easy thing and put all the stress on the poor animal. They are not your anti sadness pill. Go to a psychologist.
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I don’t buy idiocracy like “I’m a strong woman, i don’t clean and cook”. Cooking and cleaning are not a gender role, they are a basic survival skills. These people are not strong, they are retarded.
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If you are one of the girls getting up early in the morning for jogging, it’s ok. I’ll have time to change the lock until you get back.
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Sooner or later, everyone finds the right person. To some of you, this is the psychiatrist.
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Remember when you found out there was no Santa? Well, now, let me tell you about the prince on a white horse ….
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Obviously, online dating is full of these women. But no, i don’t hate them, i just don’t want them!
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How do I tell a woman that using me as a therapist and a crisis counselor isn’t healthy for either of us? She has no consistently supportive adult voices in her life except mine.
WHAT I LOOK FOR
Need a girl who likes to walk ( i don’t own a car).
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Ready to date, supportive, available, thinking about KIDS and FAMILY, decent human, fully taking responsibility for herself, curious about life, down to earth, at least some sense of humor, honest, real warm-hearted and open-minded, who invest in the relationship as much as i do, a real partner in life. She must let me steal. I love stealing…. hugs and but grabs.
I want a meaningful relationship in which we grow old and fat together, need a woman to work with me for a better future for us, looking for a woman with personality and i prefer to be single but not with the wrong person.
Ideally, looking for that woman to fit in my life completely and make my existence whole, my life accomplished and make me happy taken.
i have control over my shit and i am comfortable, to win me over your presence need to feel good. A woman I can vibe with on a spiritual, physical and intellectual level. Someone who inspires me to be a better person.
I’d like to find that beautiful type of relationship where life can be shared on a deeper level.
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A big plus is if you recognize your dating/relationships/mental problems and take steps to get better. If you did therapy, that’s perfect, Message me up right now and we can talk.
ME
First I want to point out the most important thing – INTELLIGENT, which makes me different. Different level of perception and communication. And this is pretty damn obvious.
Forget everything you know and think you know about men and people. That’s not me. Open a new blank page, free your mind and get to know me.
I’m DTF – Down To Finally be in a relationship with someone who actually cares about us, me, our mental health and we support each other.
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I took some selfies for the profile and then i saw them, realized personality is more important.
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Curiosity is one of my main characteristics. Equity, integrity and fairness are big things by me. I lead a modest calm lifestyle.
I don’t smoke or drink, cheat, abuse, gamble, use drugs. I prefer to suffer in this life sober. Strong mentally and physically, not greedy or possessive, I like intimacy, cuddling. Very practical Minimalist, down to earth, realist, genuine, friendly, good person, authentic, relaxed, honest, trustworthy, reliable, sarcastic, wholesome, peaceful, slow to anger, fast to laugh, home person, extroverted introvert. A decent no-baggage guy. The type of guy you bring home, show to your friends and family, snug on the couch, eat pizza and watch a movie.
Being myself without pretending or do things only so people could like me, don’t care what people think, but do care for my friends, family and environment.
Family and friends are most important to me. I’ve learned that money come and go, but your friends and family dont. Grateful for the things I have in life.
Open-minded (lot of people think this means agreeable).
Peaceful (lot of people think this means harmless).
I hope one day I can pass down those qualities to a family of my own. I have goodness in me and I look for that woman to share with, but I’ve been disappointed in the past and now I’m careful. I don’t take people for good by default. They need to prove themselves.
I was raised by a single mother. Watched her get hurt many times and make mistakes, from which I learned a lot.
Made me understand how important it is to treat a woman right. My life also taught me to have inner strength and independence. It made me understand just how fucked society is.
I’ve had to overcome shitty life and that made me a stronger person.
Hobbies: Comedy, memes, cycling, video games, anime, reading, psychology, philosophy, science, technology.
And as every human – Music, movies, traveling, parks, nature, seeks like-minded.
I’m also a handyman, have knowledge about buildings, construction and electronics. Can’t fix everything, but I’ll try.
A dream of mine is to build my own house someday, but also to try van-life as well.
Cancer – Ambivert – Quirkyalone – Chaotic Good – above average IQ – INTP/ESTJ/ENTJ – if these things matter for you.
WHY I AM SINGLE?
Well, i can’t date Anna Kendrick or Nikki Glaser, soo….
Too many people spend their time trying to find someone to sleep with, instead of finding someone worth waking up to.
I like good people, good as a good personality.
Online dating is full of the opposite type of people. It’s the place where the garbage and leftovers meet in desperate try to find something casual. And a small percentage of people like me looking for something special and permanent.
The first response to this website usually is: How dare you. How dare you ….having standards.
Turned out, and that a lot of women feel ENTITLED. Women who ask for more than they give.
Apart from that, 99% of female dating profiles is just random shit no one cares for, like traveling, dancing and pets. I want her to provide dating/relationship value. What are they going to do then things get hard? Dance on it? Travel on it?
They just want to get things and be loved unconditionally, but the man must provide them with everything.
They just can’t answer: “Besides sex, what do you provide in a relationship?” – “How would you make a man happy without your holes?”.
Then they run away from me to get cheap thrills from the many likes on the dating apps and thinking they deserve better. Well….. 🙂
And then we come to my personal traits.
Intelligent. This “power” just makes my life harder. Smart people will be outcasts as long the humanity prefers tiktok instead of science.
Too – logical, direct, honest, much common sense. Generally good person with strong mind and opinion, know what I need and don’t make compromises with this.
Natural enemy of women. I use logic, science, statistics, common sense and reason, not emotions.
Not an emotional person, which doesn’t mean i don’t have them, but they do not control me.
RELATIONSHIP
The 11th man theory – “say there is a woman in a room with 10 men, and all 10 men are telling her how beautiful she is, and how amazing she is and they are lighting her cigarette and buying her drinks and just treating her like gold. Then all of a sudden in walks the 11th man, he takes one look at her and says “hey how ya doin’”, turns his back on her and starts talking to his boys, THAT’S the guy she wants to be with, the 11th man, not any of the 10 men who were treating her well all night, but the one guy that couldn’t care less, why? Because for some reason women don’t want nice, they don’t want real, they don’t want to be treated well, I mean not at first and sometimes not ever, and I think that’s crazy and I refuse to play that game …. get a girl by pretending that I don’t like her, I wanna be with a woman who’s real, who digs it when I’m nice to her, who doesn’t see that as weakness or take me for granted when I tell her that I think she is more amazing than anything else in the entire world, but unfortunately most women aren’t like that, they say they are, deep down inside they want to be, but … they’re not”
Just watch What Love Is 2007, this movie is pure gold.
I worked hard on myself in the past few years boosting my skills and understanding for the relationships.
I am looking for a relationship, but not looking to jump into anything without getting to know someone first and want to settle down with someone who share the same ideas about life.
I’ve never been married, so I’m pretty sure it won’t kill me to take things slow and make sure we are compatible.
A calm and modest life brings more happiness than the pursuit of success with constant restlessness.
The good communication is vital for me and the willingness to make certain compromises to better the relationship. Looking for new viewpoints and alternative routes for more efficient life, work and relationships, but with great common sense and logic.
True love is about getting to know someone and connecting on a deep level – it’s more than just chemistry and attraction.
Man and a woman meet and fall in “love” purely because of their hormones:
Norepinephrine speeds up the heart, Dopamine makes you feel joy,
Oxytocin makes you feel closeness, Phenylethylamine makes you want intimacy.
Every relationship will get “boring” after you’ve been together for years.
Love isn’t a feeling coming from your crotch, it’s a commitment to love every day, physically and emotionally.
It’s difficult, it’s not always laughing, smiles and fun.
People tend to quit when it stops being fun, and they go look for someone else, because “the spark is gone”.
No, that’s not how it works. You want somebody to never give up on you and love you unconditionally then do the same. Be the change.
Love someone when you don’t want to. When they aren’t the easiest to deal with. When they’re hard to love.
This isn’t Hollywood, this isn’t the movies. That shit is real. That’s real life.
People don’t want to hear my opinion, they want to hear their opinion coming from my mouth. Communication is risky, even catastrophic, because it means connecting with people with a different opinion than yours. Most people cannot survive this and react like animals, aggressively and stupidly. The purpose of this site it to filter that idiots.
Extra stuff here:
People ”values” authenticity. But trying to demonstrate one’s sincerity very often appears contrived.
I’m in this unnatural setting telling you that I’m genuine even though doing this thing that feels weird and fake. Normal people don’t need to prove themselves? Except, online dating is not very normal to me and i am not proving anything to anyone, just sharing what i like, need and don’t. And… how many CVs like this you saw?
Running out of people to date, I just want to find someone to marry, have children with and grow old with – this is my deep desire.
P.S. If you still need an explanation or feel curious about this website, feel free to contact me. ( i also need feedback )
Dating CV Pavel Petkov rocnogu 